I'm 15, and the guy I'm in love with is 20. I've put myself out there, more than I have for any other guy. I've promised him so much, and given him everything (what I can, and what's within my boundaries) that he's wanted. We haven't been able to meet yet. He's a friend of my best friend. I want him so much that it physically hurts, and I don't know what to do. I'm not sure he wants me as much as I want him, because I'll always be his secret.. I'm so scared of losing him and I just don't know what I'd do without him..
Anonymous 02/09/12 @ 10:44:32pm Love
Sweetheart, the first thing you need to do. Is sit back and evaluate everything. Analyze everything he says. If he is not in it 100% then kick him to the curb. & I know that's going to be hard. B/c I've been in the same situation and I've learned from it. Another thing you might think about is he's a lot more mature than you and further ahead in life. Do you think he'll have enough time for you? b/c I know that most 20 year olds are trying to figure out their lives and figure out what they're gonna do and who they're gonna marry and where they're gonna work and where they're gonna live and where they're gonna go to school and lots more. So, just be careful and look it over. & if it doesn't look like something that will work then you need just break it off before your emotional connection gets even closer. It's gonna suck doing it. I know. but, it's something you've gotta go for youself. B/c if you don't then he will and you'll be heart broken.
#1 BoundedHeart 02/09/12 @ 10:54:09pm Advice
I bet he won't enjoy prison too much if I was him I might reconsider the situation when I was 20 I didn't associate with 15 year olds and sure as hell didn't date any there is a huge difference in 20&15 as far as maturity goes, you've got your whole life ahead and he's in early adulthood just reaching that age where life truly begins and important decisions are made that a 15 year old shouldn't even be worried about.
#2 Anonymous 02/17/12 @ 01:25:08am Comment
